Taking a graceful shortcut to a happier more successful life
You may think that when your computer doesn’t do what you want it to, you need to call an engineer, but what about when events in your life don’t quite work out to your liking? You may be surprised to know that everything in our lives is there as the result of our unconscious programming. We choose every event, happening, and relationship, however weird that may seem! So if your life is not to your liking, some reprogramming may be necessary. But how do our unconscious needs, wants and desires end up creating our life events?
Essentially, our thoughts, beliefs, and what we see and feel around us, create an image in our aura. Like a prototype. The reality of that image is then naturally attracted to us. So, thinking negative thoughts, attracts negative events! The conscious is the lowest form of the mind. It niggles on the negative, sees the worst around us, magnifies. To rise above it, we must refuse to accept its’ mean nagging, and get into our higher self, the part of ourselves that knows what is truly best for us. Meditate on your highest good to get there. And trick the conscious mind by surrounding yourself with images of what you truly wish to attract that you see all the time. And affirm ‘I have this now’. Think positive thoughts of your wonderful relationship, job, friendships, home, etc. (however ‘dumb’ that seems!) and the good is what you will attract!
The past also has considerable bearing. Our aura, the magnetic energy field that surrounds our bodies, is the place where we store information about everything that ever happens to us, in this life, and previous lives. The information is stored as feelings – like a black box recording everything we ever felt. We naturally seek out experiences which match, or resonate with (have the same vibration as) past events stored in the aura. Why do we do this? Why do we attract for example, a relationship with a partner that closely feels like our relationship with our father, or mother? (Often creating the ‘oh no! this is all too familiar!’ feeling). Well it’s because there are still unresolved issues in the original relationship. So the original issues need to be resolved (healed) and then the problems in the present relationship will heal. Our deepest self leads us to similar situations so that we can heal what we need to.
I often suggest that my clients just ‘do what they feel like doing’ in every moment – this is really an infallible guide which will naturally lead you to your true path and purpose, and also, to the places and people that you need to connect with. You might think you are merely going to the shops to get an ice cream, but in a deeper part of your being, your subconscious (which is able to process 10,000 pieces of information per second compared to the 1-9 pieces handled by the puny conscious mind) is taking you to the place you need to go in order to nurture your soul and cause it to grow. If we allow this process to happen, by just going and getting the ice cream (rather than spending twenty minutes agonising over it making us fat or costing too much) we open ourselves to the natural magic of synchronicity – when people, places, and events just seem to magically provide the information, support, inspiration and, yes, feelings, that we need to trigger our deepest wellbeing and growth.
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Energetic healing’ (crystal, sound healing, reiki, etc, in the hands of a sufficiently psychic practitioner, can clear the original pattern from your aura so that you don’t have to go through the pattern any more. In the process you receive the understanding and resolution for the situation and it becomes part of your being (part of your ‘completed feeling store’ in your aura so that you no longer attract ‘repeats’ of the situation.) Healing is like reprogramming the being and it is a untrue that it is purely for when you are sick! You can have healing on any topic you choose, in any area of your life to help eliminate struggle and help you be happier and more successful. I would like to see healing renamed to something like ‘reprogramming for success’ (name suggestions welcome!) so that more people could benefit.
How does it feel? Relaxing, nurturing. Essentially, healing channels the natural power of spirit. It is likely that healing will become as popular as massage is, over time, with the benefit that it helps us all to deal with our lives and overcome problems in a more rapid and graceful way. So that we can all evolve, as a planet.
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Jelila is a gifted natural intuitive presently in Byron Bay, Australia on 0410 495 139. She sings you back to health and harmony using her heavenly voice and the natural vibration of crystals.
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