Do you often say ‘I hate my job’ or ‘I
hate my brother’ or ‘I hate…’ well,
anything? If so, read on, because you are subconsciously
programming yourself in ways that can cut you off from certain
things that you really do want!
The way the mind is organised, is that groups of ideas and
concepts are filed together in the brain. We file similar
things together, all on the same level, rather like a line
of books on a shelf. The only thing is, if we then connect
a certain feeling or idea to one of those things, then all
the other things get ‘tarred with the same brush’
– in other words, the brain categorises them all the
same way.
For example, if you decide ‘I hate my father’
it is a profound thing, indeed! (And not just because of the
effect it might have on your Dad!)
Let me explain why. The concept ‘Father’
is a massively important ‘top level’ concept.
It is a major archetype, icon, a world-wide idea that represents
not just your Dad, but half of all society! ‘Father’
is a powerful subconscious mind concept that incorporates
‘God, Work, Action, Cash, Enterprise, Business, Government,
Authority’… and a whole lot more!
In subconscious mind terms, simple terms like ‘father’
are connected with a whole lot of other concepts. Imagine
writing a network of everything that ‘father’
makes you think of. It could take in ‘Old School
Tie, Punishment, Success, Winning, Sports, Newspaper, Football’
– pages of ideas about ‘father’. All
these ideas are tied, in your mind to the concept ‘father’.
When you think ‘father’, all those extra
ideas are also a part of the connection and the thought process,
and the feeling.
So, in mind programming terms, when you say (or subconsciously
feel) ‘I hate my father’, you are saying a whole
lot more – specifically, you are saying ‘I hate
God, Work, Action, Cash, Enterprise, Business, Government,
Authority, Old School Tie, Punishment, Success, Winning, Sports,
Newspaper, Football!’ This is the ‘shorthand’
that the mind uses to organise information. Smaller
ideas are tied progressively to much larger ones.
Any of these ideas that are positive, and that you would like
to be a part of you, such as ‘winning’ and ‘success’
unfortunately get thrown out with the bathwater of ‘I
hate father’ because they are all in the same group!
If you hate something, you naturally do not want it to be
a part of your life! So when you said ‘I hate
father’ you also unwittingly said ‘I hate success’
and ‘I hate winning’ (or whatever else ‘father’
represents to you). And because logically, you would
not choose to ‘hate yourself’ you will subconsciously
avoid ‘success’ and ‘winning’.
Eek!
What to do? Just be aware that this is how ‘inner
blocks’ get created. By our judgement. We
cut ourselves off from valuable bits of ourselves and then
wonder why we’re not whole!
As ‘father’ also represents the inner masculine,
a very important part of who you are (the acting, doing, thinking
part) then when you say ‘I hate my father’ you
are also effectively saying ‘I hate myself’. (I
hate the male part of myself). So that is going to create
major conflict in you, you are likely to cut off the ‘father’
or male part of yourself, making it ‘bad’ and
leaving you with only the feminine ‘feeling’ part,
which on its own is not going to get you very far (the feminine
being the receptive, feeling part of you.)
It’s also true the other way round, for example, if
you say ‘I hate my job’ be aware you are also
saying ‘I hate my father’ in subconscious mind-speak,
which also equates with ‘I hate men’ which may
not contribute well to your relationship! (The same
is true of ‘I hate relating’ if a man said it,
would equate with ‘I hate my mother, I hate women’.)
So, ANY time you say you hate or dislike like something, anything
at all, catch yourself and embrace it at the deepest level
you can. You are literally hating yourself, and hate
is what you will reap from it!
If you do often use the ‘hate’ word in conversation,
then it is likely true for you that on a deep subconscious
level, that you do ‘hate yourself’. Subconscious
mind beliefs pop out in the words we choose when we are talking.
The so called ‘Freudian slip’. In this case,
embrace and surrender to the idea that ‘I hate myself’
has been true for you, and let it go. Ahh! Relief!
NEXT ISSUE: ‘Hurt Girl’ And
‘Domineering Father’
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